I have let myself go. I have been happily married for 5 years and now have that happy fat. Well seriously I have had happy fat since I started dating him 9 years ago. I am a grandma, but don't want to look like the fat, baking cookies,grey hair grandma. I can take care of the grey hair but the fat has got to go. I have 3 beautiful daughters and I want people to say that they can see where my daughters get thier looks. Yes vain. but also a struggle. You know how mean people can be.When coments like "wow thats her mother" I want my sexy back