I know it's HARD to not listen to her words and let them get to you. She says one thing and you feel another... I have something that WORKS great and keeps me thinking about myself in a positive way, cuz lets be honest here and say that when someone says something like that it makes you feel like crap and wonder exactally what you are doing and if it's even really worth it and it goes something likes this...If the words that they are saying to you don't LIFT you up, CELEBRATE or PRAISE your hard work, then consider it sabotage and treat it as such. Keep up the GREAT WORK!! Did you get the memo? You're losing weight!!! Yay YOU!!