Sugar Waffle's Journal, 17 Jul 16

You'd be a believer. 

"Your beliefs are your roots. From these roots stem all your possibilities for growth and transformation...Let your belief roots grow deeper." ~ Oprah 

Awe inspiring thoughts....Thanks! 

I'd do exactly what I'm doing. ;) 

Same here, Mskestrela :) 

As for the second quote: I don't hold on to people. I let them go. If they want to come back, it's because they want to, not because I want them to 

Exactly! I learned in my last relationship that some people actually want to be held onto, and can't stand 100% unconditional love. Freaky, but I kept true to my ideal of not needing him to be anything for me, and loving all that he his. He couldn't handle it. But that's ok, because I enjoyed loving him, and letting him go. 

Wow, Mskestrela, I was just thinking about people in general. LOL Thanks for sharing. You really are awesome :) 

I figured that moment I let my son go, I could let anyone else go a lot easier 

I think I believe in you two! 

yall are very strong ladies. i wish i had half your strength. right now i dont feel as if i have any will power letting someone go.  

I'm beginning to think that one of life's biggest lessons is just that..letting go. Of people, of things, and on here, of pounds! LOL I've found that I lean towards Buddhist philosophy. Things really are simply what they are, but our filters put meaning on them. When you can drop your beliefs about how things are 'supposed' to be, then you can choose how you want them to be. And the Universe can conspire to make it so. 

Exactly right, mskestrela! :)