I am more than ok. I'm great. I feel great. I feel more like myself. exactly!! support is great! dictators? not needed. it is supposed to be a community... I'm just setting my personal boundaries. I am not someone's pet project. ... I'm not playing tricks with you, that's for sure. don't be scared, I got your back.
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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Nowwww exactly how strongly do you feel against being kidnapped and fed with a funnel, because I don't have plans for the weekend and I'm gonna be bored? Lol sorry just kittens... I'm super proud of you and your take charge attitude! I find it both refreshing and inspiring! Can't wait to see what you accomplish! 💗👍
25 Apr 16 by member: Christinemeowk
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I agree with your post but personally I love reading about health articles that relate to my health journey and life style. I geek out on it. I love reading it and it inspires me to work harder. When I read the book Wheat Belly. It really pushed me to not touch wheat/grain ever again. Even when I want to treat myself. I agree you may choose to do something but there are things that motivate you to do it. Or influence you.
25 Apr 16 by member: Panigale1199
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Ha ha ha ha Christine !!! well if your bored I understand your drive to do so HA HA HA
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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panigale... I like reading about all of it too. but i have had people say I couldn't have lost weight without them or they kept me from dying....... no they didnt. I did. I did this. I put myself here and I am the one digging myself out.
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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interdependence is what we should all strive for in every relationship. I don't like people who want to foster a dependant relationship... I don't think those people are well and I don't need them trying to make my mind sick with their nonsense.
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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8H6, great post and i agree with you. we are here to support each other on what works for them, not force our way of doing things on them. I support whatever works for you. I hope you have a great day. And keep making the great progress no matter what
25 Apr 16 by member: NavymomT
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I read books, and opinions here on FS and then do what best works for me. You are strong and capable - no one believes you need to be taken under wing - if they do, they are foolish! You go, Lady!
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25 Apr 16 by member: Christinemeowk
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I know you said this wasn't directed at anyone in particular, and I really don't think it's directed at me, BUT if I've EVER come across that way, I unequivocally rescind and retract anything I've said or done that might have been communicated like that, sincerely.
25 Apr 16 by member: 1point21gigawatts
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thank you navymom :D. ...... Carmen (I'll call you Carmen now if you'd like) I understand you just fine. I will try to be more clear so you can understand me too :D
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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HCB thank you. yes that is what I try to do. I read and hear everyone and am trying to do what is right for me. I think it's the best way for everyone
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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8? that's perfect ... saves me clfrom cleaning up after dinner LOL
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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Yeah people who say they "saved" you need to get off their high horse. Plus I cannot stand people say they "help" people and claim a persons success on themselves. I agree with you. But not everyone is like that. There are good people who put free information out there to help people regardless if people take their advice or not. They do it in hopes to give people another option like Martin Berkhan for example
25 Apr 16 by member: Panigale1199
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phil! I went to you, if you rememeber. you have especially been supportive of me lately when trying to figure what I need to do.......... no I have some gossiping about me and I've had private messages of people's "advice" and then later saying that they are the reason for my losses....
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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panigale. .. yes there are wonderful amazing people on here!!! that's why I've stayed despite the bulls#it.... and the rising level of said bulls#it.... I just want to remind myself and others that we all have our own personal power and no one has the right to take it from you.
25 Apr 16 by member: 8hunter6
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Yea, you don't owe your success to anyone but yourself. People can be helpful for guidance or support, but in the end it is 100% your hard work and determination.
25 Apr 16 by member: notelaine
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She'll be singing a different tune after this weekend! I think I'll bring a funnel and cute shoes!
25 Apr 16 by member: Christinemeowk
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I don't think the zealots of "THE PLAN" know how much they hurt others by force feeding their WOE at us. I love how we all share what works for each of us and I love the recipes and photos people post. It makes me excited and more motivated. I do not like those that like to debate and argue about why their way is the only way to go. We can lose weight by low carb, low fat, CICO, counting points ... we each have to choose our own path. Love your post. I wish you success, Hunter. Hugs!
25 Apr 16 by member: Mom2Boxers
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We all own our success or failure. Great post!
25 Apr 16 by member: CatHerder
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