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Well last night my husband took me out to sushi, it was good. I feel guilty though, according to the books it's not that bad in points. It just sucks when my husband is a bean pole and here I am the fat bean at the bottom. I feel if he isn't eating then why should I be eating. The big problem with that is I have a big sweet tooth and of course he doesn't so when he refuses a piece of cake or cookie so do I just because I don't want him thinking I should be eating that. Now don't get me wrong he says he loves me the way I am, but it's hard to except that when I don't love me, the way I am.
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I know what you mean. My other half is a bean pole too. He has never had to worry about what he eats. I always have. I always feel like he is saying to himself for me not to eat it, but doesn't really say anything outloud. I think eating is one of the hardest habits to break, because you have to do it to survive unlike smoking, drinking and that sort of thing.
18 Oct 07 by member: bethalann
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Hi, you really cannot compare yourself, and your body/size with your husband or ANYONE else! If you do it will leave you feeling deficient. Try to just look at you, and what you are doing, or what you've already accomplished. If you compare yourself to others you'll come out the loser (not in a good way) every time.
The object is not to deprive yourself. The object is to unlearn unhealthy habits, and replace them with healthy ones. If you choose fruit and vegetables along with healthy meats, grains, and dairy you'll be a winner! Best of luck to you!
19 Oct 07 by member: Lillian93940
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